Embracing the Power of Befriending: A Call to Corporate Volunteers
In a world where connections are often digital and fleeting, the role of a Volunteer Befriender with Regenerage stands out as a beacon of genuine human connection. For over eight years Helen has had the privilege of befriending Monica; this is Helen’s and Monica’s story:
‘For over eight years I have had the privilege of befriending Monica, witnessing first-hand the profound impact of companionship on her life. My journey as a befriender began with a simple desire to make a positive difference, and it has evolved into a deeply rewarding commitment that has enriched both our lives.
My Befriending Journey
My initial visits to Monica started as home visits, where we shared stories and laughter over tea. As Monica’s health journey progressed, our meetings transitioned to hospital and rehabilitation visits, and eventually settled into regular weekly sessions at the care home where she now resides. Monica’s wish for continuity in our visits highlighted the importance of our bond, rooted in shared values and a mutual respect that transcends the years between us.
Monica: A Remarkable Individual
Monica embodies resilience and grace, with a vibrant personality that shines through her stories and humour. Her life experiences, spanning decades of adventure and challenges, have enriched our friendship and taught me invaluable lessons in empathy and companionship. Being Monica’s befriender is not just about being present; it’s about honouring her past, cherishing our present moments, and ensuring she feels valued and heard.
The Impact of Befriending
Monica often expresses gratitude for our visits, reminiscing fondly about her family and the joy of our conversations. Knowing that my presence brings her comfort and companionship reinforces the profound impact of befriending on mental and emotional well-being. It’s a testament to the simple yet transformative power of human connection, especially in combating loneliness and isolation among older adults.
What Befriending Means to Me
Being Monica’s befriender is a privilege I cherish deeply. It’s about more than just listening; it’s about forming a bond that transcends generational gaps and enriches both our lives. The fulfilment I get from our time together is immeasurable, reminding me daily of the importance of compassion and companionship in our communities.
Join Regenerage as a Befriender
To those considering becoming a befriender, I urge you to take the leap. Your commitment can make a world of difference in someone’s life, offering them companionship, joy, and a sense of belonging. No one should feel alone or isolated, especially as they age. Your decision to volunteer as a befriender could be the lifeline someone desperately needs.’
Marvellous Monica turned 100 on Saturday 24th May 2025! Many congratulations to Monica from all of the staff and volunteers at Regenerage and many thanks to Helen for 8 years of befriending Monica. You both are truly amazing and inspirational. Here are some pics of Monica and Helen and also of the birthday party, organised by the care home that Helen also attended.
Make a Difference Today
Let’s come together as corporate volunteers and extend the hand of friendship to older adults in our communities. Your willingness to engage and connect can brighten someone’s day and provide invaluable support during their journey. Embrace the opportunity to make a meaningful impact through befriending; t’s a choice that promises to enrich both your life and the lives of the person you befriend. Just an hour of your time each week is all we ask. An hour a week to make a phone call to someone who might have no one else to talk to, someone who lives alone, someone who is desperately lonely, someone for whom that phone call will mean the world to.
Join us in spreading warmth, compassion, and friendship. Together, we can create a more connected and caring community for all. Call us on 01772 552850 to find out how you too can become a Befriending Volunteer like Helen.
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